December 23, 2008
See you at the New Blog Site
December 22, 2008
Friendship and Accountablity
I have a group of women whose friendship I treasure. We have supported one another through many life changes. There have been traumas with children, health issues, job changes, challenges to faith, and just life in general. Some of these women have moved away, but we still keep in touch. Most important is the way we hold each other accountable for our actions. When someone makes a plan, we help her remember what it was. If one of us is discouraged, we offer support and let her know she isn't alone. When anyone in the group is seeking answers, we pray with her.
Even Jesus had his closest companions—the 12 disciples. And within that group were the ones nearest his heart—Peter, James, and John. There were many who followed him as Rabbi, but it was these special few that He entrusted with His true identity and mission. Do you follow Jesus as a wise Rabbi or as the One whose birth we celebrate in 3 days--the "God Incarnate, Man Divine" (as the hymn puts it)?
Hopefully you, too, have friends you can laugh AND cry with. You will find your life journey enriched by the friends who walk with you. I’m sure you already know how much they support you and hold you accountable to your calling in life. Take time to say “Thanks” to the special ones in your life, this and every season.
See you tomorrow.
December 21, 2008
Advent Four
This is the Fourth and final Sunday of Advent. All the candles are lit in anticipation of the imminent arrival of our Lord.December 20, 2008
Don't forget yourself

To be counter cultural and not ‘do’ any of these things is probably not an option for too many of us. Children and family members and friends all seem to have expectations. And it is fun to see the surprised or delighted faces when they open a special gift.
I would suggest, though, that you carve out a time for yourself. Give yourself the gift of an hour or two where you can sit quietly and hear the angels sing.
Maybe that will involve sitting down to watch a favorite Christmas movie.
It could be a walk through the zoo or along a nature path.
How about reading “The Gift of the Magi” or some other lovely old Christmas story?
Perhaps simply ordering pizza instead of cooking dinner is what you need.
Soaking in a warm bubble bath with scented candles in the room can be relaxing.
You could read the Bible account of the birth and sit with the story for a while, thinking about how you would have felt if you were present.
December 19, 2008
The Christmas Tree
The Christmas tree came to England when Prince Albert (of Germany) gave Queen Victoria a tree in 1841. German immigrants to America brought the tradition to the United States. Soon ornaments, paper chains, candles (and then electric lights) were found on the trees.
Whether your tree is artificial, freshly cut or living, the beauty and symbolism brighten homes and businesses throughout the season. The addition of a few baubles and tinsel transforms the most scrawny tree into a thing of beauty.
As Linus so eloquently put it, "I never thought it was such a bad little tree. It's not bad at all, really. Maybe it just needs a little love."December 18, 2008
Eggnog
December 17, 2008
Christmas Stocking
When that star in the East hung low in the heavens and drew those people to the manger in which the Christ Child lay, it shone as a beacon of hope to all, to you and to me. That hope, born again on Christmas, is a realization of what it means to be one of God's children...When we look into the manger, we see an innocence which was once ours, an innocence of goodness and trust to which we are summoned to return.December 16, 2008
Toys are for Kids
In 1980 Toys for Tots started collecting only new toys and 11 years later formed the Marine Toys for Tots Foundation. It is estimated that over 370 million toys have been distributed since the beginning of Toys for Tots.
Of course, it's also fun to give gifts to the little ones you love and know personally! May you find blessing in helping one of the least of these this holiday season. December 15, 2008
The Creche
If you haven’t yet had a chance to set up your Nativity scene, tonight would be a lovely time to gather as a family to do this. Styles vary from the traditional scene used for years at St. John's, to the more modern set used one year in the chapel of the church.
Our tradition is to include not just the traditional sheep and shepherds, but also animals and figures that mean something to us as a family. There is the ceramic horse I’ve had since High School, a small ceramic elephant from my childhood, and some foreign dolls given me by my uncle from trips overseas. (This is just a portion of the entire scene.)

We do put up the entire scene at the start, except that some years we haven’t put the Christ Child in the manger until Christmas. I’ve always thought it would be nice to develop the tradition of adding to the scene over the days before Christmas, but there is so much else happening, that we never did.
However you do your Nativity, let it be a time of peace and remembering the reason for our preparations and a reminder of the coming of the Prince of Peace.
December 14, 2008
Rose Sunday

Today is the 3rd Sunday in Advent. You light 2 purple and the one rose candle. Liturgically the day is called Gaudete Sunday. Gaudete is a translation of the Latin word for ‘rejoice’, which is found in the antiphon of the service today—taken from Philippians 4:4. (The Advent wreath in the photo is from several years ago at the Cathedral.)
We are reminded that our Lord is drawing close and we are to be active and JOYFUL in our waiting and watching for that coming.
The prayer today is from the Episcopal Book of Common Prayer. I love the words that invoke God's presence among us.
December 13, 2008
St. Lucia
Today is the feast of St. Lucy--Santa Lucia.
Simple Lucia Bread can be made using store bought bread dough and kneading in a little orange rind and some spices. However, the purist would want to make the bread from this or another recipe.
St. Lucia’s Braided Bread
1 1/2 cups milk, warm but not boiling
2 1/4-ounce packages active dry yeast
1/4 cup plus 1 tablespoon sugar
6 tablespoons butter, cut into pieces
2 large eggs
1/4 cup orange juice
1 tablespoon finely grated orange rind
5 1/2 to 6 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
Spices (cardomon, cinnamon, saffron) and yellow food color
Mix yeast with 3 cups of flour, orange rind sugar and spices. Stir in milk and butter. Add eggs, orange juice, and yellow food coloring. Blend in remaining flour to form a soft dough. Let rise until doubled. Punch down and form into rolls or ring.
For rolls, divide dough into 30 pieces, roll and shape into rolls.
For braided bread, divide dough into 3 parts. Form three strips of dough, braid together, shape into a ring on a baking sheet.
Let rolls or bread rise. Bake at 350o until done (15 minutes for rolls and ½ hour to 45 minutes for bread).
Top with Glaze and Garnish made by mixing 2 1/2 cups confectioners sugar with 2 1/2 to 3 1/2 tablespoons orange juice. Drizzle over bread ring when cool and top with 1/3 cup dried cranberries.
December 12, 2008
Friends

December 11, 2008
Holiday Symbols
What comes to mind when you think of Advent and Christmas? Most Christmas symbols are easily created. In fact many of them are included in the Chrismon decorations.
Some of my favorite holiday symbols are:
Bells—that ring in the good news.
Angels—who proclaim glad tidings.
Sheep—remind us of the Shepherd who came and the shepherds who adored. (I’ve recently come across a new way of making a sheep’s head. Lay your hand on a paper, with the 3 middle fingers together and the thumb and little finger sticking out for the ears. It's similar to the way you make a turkey from your hand, except you keep the 3 middle fingers together.)
Evergreen wreaths and trees—represent eternity and are found everywhere this time of year.
Candy Canes—symbolize the purity and blood of Jesus.
Stars—foretold the birth to the Wise men.
Holly—foreshadows the crown of thorns and drops of blood.
However, the main focus of all the decorations and symbols is, of course, the Nativity and Manger. If you are looking for something to do with the youngsters in your life to help them learn about the story, have them use their fingerprints to create the scene. (It can also be a creative spiritual aid for you as you think about the role each person and animal played in the whole story.) Remember a couple of years back when making animals and other real and imaginary creatures using your fingerprints was all the rage…well, here’s how to make the complete Nativity scene with the same craft.
You’ll need a white paper, some colored ink pads (you can use black, but I think it’s a bit more fun with the colors), and a damp cloth or paper towel to clean your fingers. You will also need markers or pens to complete the figures.
Practice making the animals and people before you make your scene. Here are some of my practice ones, including my first, not so great attempt at a camel. Looking at tit now, I could perhaps have turned the smudges into a cow by adding ears, legs, and horns. In reality, I don't think there are mistakes with this art form. While it may not look like anything at first, once you add eyes, legs, etc., they do take on a life of their own.
Sheep: Index finger for body, and tip of the pinky finger for the head. Add eyes, nose, ears, legs, and tail with markers.
Donkey: Thumb for body, end of pinky for head. Add ears, nose, legs, tail, and eyes.
Camel: Thumb for body, pinky for head (like Donkey). Make the hump from your index finger at right angles to the body.
King: First 2 joints of your index finger. Tip of index finger for face. Add arms, crown, hair, beard, and eyes. You can add a gift in his hands, too.
Shepherd: Like the King, except add a head band and shepherd’s crook
Mary: Index finger for body and second print at right angles for her to kneel, Index finger head and pinky print for her veil. Add hair, arms, eyes, mouth, and halo.
Joseph: Similar to Mary, except add beard and halo
Angel: Like Shepherd and King, with index finger wing. Add halo and outline wings and gown.
Infant Jesus: Index finger for swaddled baby, pinky head. Add eyes, halo, hair, a few lines on the body to indicate the bands of cloth.
Sketch a manger under the Baby and add straw on the ‘floor’.
While making the scene with the children in your life, have them tell you the story, if they are old enough. If they don’t know all the details, you can help them out.
Have fun! Remember it’s the creativity that counts, not the perfection of the result!
See you tomorrow.
December 10, 2008
Think about Joseph
"Now the birth of Jesus the Messiah took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been engaged to Joseph, but before they lived together, she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit. Her husband Joseph, being a righteous man and unwilling to expose her to public disgrace, planned to dismiss her quietly. But just when he had resolved to do this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, for the child conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will bear a son, and you are to name him Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” All this took place to fulfill what had been spoken by the Lord through the prophet: “Look, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall name him Emmanuel,” which means, “God is with us.” When Joseph awoke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him; he took her as his wife, but had no marital relations with her until she had borne a son; and he named him Jesus." Mt. 1:18-25In the Christmas story, Joseph tends to be overlooked. We should remember that if he made a different decision the story we know would be very different. According to Jewish law, he could have had Mary stoned for infidelity, but instead he made the decision to accept her and claim the child, which was not of his blood, as his own.
By his acceptance, Joseph let the neighbors think that he had overstepped the betrothal boundaries and had relations with Mary. She was exonerated and he took on the shame of her pregnancy. Only the pair knew the whole truth of the angelic visitors.
Joseph is usually portrayed as a much older man. In truth he would have been older than Mary (who was probably only 13 or 14), but to me that doesn’t mean he was aged. I like the images I found online that show him as a younger man--I think the second one is from "The Nativity Story" movie.
I would urge you to take time to read and re-read the passage from Matthew.
Think about what your reaction would have been to Mary’s astonishing announcement.
Enjoy your reflections. See you tomorrow.December 9, 2008
Luminarias Light the Way for the Christ Child
Here in the SW, luminarias are an ever present symbol that Christmas is coming. A luminaria is a paper bag with the top folded down sand in the bottom. A votive candle is placed in the sand and lighted on Christmas Eve to light the way for the Christ Child to your home. The ancient Romans celebrated Saturnalia by giving wax tapers as gifts to one another and to Saturn. Celts used bonfires as part of their religious observances. The December celebration, welcoming the Sun at the solstice, included fire in the form of the burning of an oak log and may have involved participants leaping over the fire to obtain protection from evil forces. German and Irish custom dictates the placing of a lighted candle in the window on Christmas Eve as a welcome to the Christ child.
In Spain, a tradition named “Hogueras” (bonfires) is still in evidence in some places. It started long before Christianity as part of the observance of the winter solstice (and probably originated from their ancient Celtic roots). The celebration includes people jumping over the fire to obtain protection against illness.
It is easy to see how the luminaria tradition grew up in what is now the Southwestern United Sates. Spanish Conquistadors and the Franciscan friars brought the tradition from their homeland into the new country.
The bonfires of Hogueres grew smaller in the new world where wood was scarce. The first luminarias were indeed small bonfires formed from a 3’ cube of crisscrossed pinon branches. Only when paper and paper bags became readily available did the luminaria take on its current form. (In fact, not so long ago--maybe 40 years, there was still great debate over which was the ‘real’ form of a luminaria—the bonfire or a paper bag with candle.)

Now, luminarias are an expected part of Christmas here, with tours of decorated neighborhoods. The tradition has been carried home by visitors, too, so you can find luminarias nearly anywhere--some are fancifully cut out and decorated for other holidays, too--a far cry from the original purpose. You can even get electric luminarias, but I don’t think the effect is quite the same.
If you put up luminarias, I hope you’ll remember that you are guiding the Holy Infant to your home and heart.
December 8, 2008
Give Unto Others
This time of year there are many, many groups seeking donations. Food pantries are esp. hard hit because the need is greater over the holidays. Some groups collect food and money to provide Christmas dinners for needy families. Other organizations are collecting clothing or coats or blankets for the less fortunate in our communities. While the collections go on year round, many depend on the Christmas season generosity to fill their shelves and coffers.At our church we have an Angel Tree with the names and desires of children of families who frequent our Food Pantry on a regular basis. It is heartwarming to watch the (about) 250 tags disappearing from the tree and the many wrapped gifts reappearing under the tree. We also provide a Christmas dinner for each of the families through donations of turkeys, hams, green beans, pumpkin and other items.
If you have extra time to volunteer, or the ability to purchase a can or two (or more) of food to donate, any of these groups will be grateful for the help. And an added benefit will be a warm feeling in your heart this Advent season. We usually take a tag or 2 off the tree and bring a food donation, too. While that has sometimes stretched our budget, it is a reminder that others are less fortunate and that really, we are very blessed.
December 7, 2008
Second Sunday of Advent

“Praise and honor to you, Living God; your chose the Hebrew people and brought them step by step to look for a redeemer , and hope for the Christ. Give us grace to see our need and recognize salvation when it comes.”
I pray your Sunday worship and your Sabbath time today will be a blessing to you and yours.
December 6, 2008
St. Nicholas Day
Later, legends grew up around his generosity and help for the needy. He is said to have provided dowries for three daughters of an impoverished father. One of the more miraculous things attributed to Nicholas is the restoration of life to 3 boys chopped up and pickled by an innkeeper. Because of his action in calming a storm and saving sailors, he is the patron of sailors.
Nicholas has many traditions and symbols including leaving your shoes outside the door on December 5, (the Eve of St. Nicholas). You can include a note and carrots and hay for his horse in the shoes. When he visits, Nicholas leaves fruit (an orange), candy (gold coins), and other treats.
As these traditions moved from country to country, Saint Nicholas or Sankt Niklaus (German) or Sinterklaas (Dutch) gradually became Santa Claus in America. Clement Clark Moore, a professor at the Episcopal General Theological Seminary in NY wrote A Visit from St. Nicholas ('Twas The Night Before Christmas) in 1823 and established Santa Claus as an icon in the popular culture. Thomas Nast, a caricaturist, created the familiar plump look for Santa Claus in 1881.
There are still those who maintain some of the Saint Nicholas traditions like making a St. Nicholas Garden. You plant wheat on St. Nicholas Day (December 6) and they should sprout by Christmas. Put a white votive in the garden to light on Christmas Eve.Santa Claus is known for giving presents, however, St. Nicholas himself was more interested in helping those in need. Maybe there is someone you can “be St. Nicholas for”.
See you tomorrow.
December 5, 2008
Annunciation
In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent by God to a town in Galilee called Nazareth, to a virgin engaged to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. The virgin’s name was Mary And he came to her and said, “Greetings, favored one! The Lord is with you.” But she was much perplexed by his words and pondered what sort of greeting this might be. The angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. And now, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you will name him Jesus. He will be great, and will be called the Son of the Most High, and the Lord God will give to him the throne of his ancestor David. He will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.” Mary said to the angel, “How can this be, since I am a virgin?” The angel said to her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be holy; he will be called Son of God. And now, your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son; and this is the sixth month for her who was said to be barren. For nothing will be impossible with God.” Then Mary said, “Here am I, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word.” Then the angel departed from her. Luke 1:26-38
Today I invite you to consider the visit of the angel to Mary as recounted by Luke. Read the Biblical record at least a couple of times. Sit quietly and let yourself imagine being in the scene.
Think about how you might have felt if an angel came to you.What would you have experienced? Heard? Felt? Seen? Smelled? Tasted?
Mary was very likely a young teenager at the time—how does that change your impressions?
Would you react to an angel visit differently now than as a younger person?
The Annunciation has been a favorite theme of artists through the years. I’ve included a variety of their images for you. Look at all the pictures—perhaps one of them really speaks to you. Maybe you find yourself drawn to sketching your own impressions of the event.
Let this be a holy time of listening to God and relating to the story in whatever way your heart is led.See you tomorrow.
December 4, 2008
Chrismon Decorations

The wreath itself is a symbol and reminder that Jesus is the Branch from the Root of David (Is. 11:1). See if you can find the other symbols on the wreath:
He is the Lamb of God. (John 1:29)
The candle represents Jesus, Light of the World. (John 8:12)
A crown shows Christ as King of Kings. (I Timothy 6:15 or Revelation 17:14)
Snowflakes remind us that he forgives our sins and makes them white as snow. (Isaiah 1:18)
Crosses, of course, represent Jesus, Savior and Redeemer. The white and gold cross is a Chrismon someone gave me as a gift & introduced me to the concept. (Matthew 27:37-50)
The candy cane is a dual reminder that Jesus is our Shepherd and that He shed his blood to make us holy. (John 10:11)
The Trefoil represents the Three-in-One nature of God—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. (Matthew 28:19)
Sometimes Jesus is called the Rose of Sharon. (Song of Solomon 2:1)
Holly is not really a Chrismon but is a symbol that reminds us of the three-fold nature of God and of Christ’s crown of thorns and the blood He shed.
You can use the verses as starting point(s) for devotions, prayers, or lexio divino meditations on Who Jesus Is.
December 3, 2008
Mexican Chocolate
It's the middle of the first week in Advent--time to take a breather and sit with God. I suggest you fix a nice steaming mug of Mexican Hot Chocolate (recipe below), wrap yourself in a cozy blanket or prayer shawl and sit in God's presence.8 oz. milk
1 packet of Dark chocolate cocoa mix (it really should be the dark kind, not Nestle's Quik)
Sprinkle of cinnamon, to taste
Heat milk, whisk cocoa mix and cinnamon into milk to form a light froth on top.
Sit back and enjoy some quiet time.
You can also make the more traditional form:
Melt 3 oz. bittersweet (bakers) or Mexican chocolate in 3 C. milk and 2 T. sugar or honey over medium heat, until not quite boiling. Froth together with a mini whisk*. Pour into 3 mugs, stir with cinnamon sticks and top with mini marshmallows (if desired).

*To be really traditional, use a Molinillo de Madera para Chocolate (Chocolate Stirrer-pictured above) to mix the milk and chocolate.
December 1, 2008
Remember our Troops
About this time in December, I start thinking about addressing Christmas cards. That's partly (OK mostly) because a friend hosts a Christmas Card Tea every year so friends can get together and visit while addressing cards. Angel Kisses





